"the house"

The STBX insists on keeping the house, maybe buying your own is a better option? :0(

Cops

After months of separation and who knows how many fights, the cops finally got involved in this fiasco....not proud of how I conducted myself up to the point they showed up, but I finally stood up for myself, finally pushed back, didn't allow myself to be bullied.....that part of it felt good

Making Mistakes

......do your best to avoid these little rascals

rather odd

So, got the first post out of the way....and received a comment right out of the gate, kinda. It was from my STBX, who in the past year has never read or commented on the other blog that I author (of course, no one else does either). She "accidentally" signed into my blogger account and posted the first comment under my name......awesome. Shockingly, it was not a positive critique. Which brings me to the question of the day:

Do our ex's only dislike things when we are married to them because we like these things, and conversely do they then only start appreciating these things because the marriage is ending/over?

And Away We Go

hey all,

 this is my attempt to wade through the insanity of getting divorced.....the idea is that I post the ridiculous things that happen when two people decide that staying married is not longer an option. More than likely, there will be ranting and outlandish antidotes that start something like "You will never believe........", the  plan is also to post some forum type questions as well. So, maybe a question then:

Did you and your STBX (soon to be ex) split amicably, and is such a thing even possible?

looking forward to hearing from you

D